She’s Been Frozen Since 2020, Thawed for a Week, and Baked for 45 Minutes
There are some sentences that feel like instructions and confessions at the same time.
“She’s been frozen since 2020, thawed for a week, and baked for 45 minutes” is one of them.
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At first glance, it sounds domestic and ordinary—something you’d read on the back of a box in a grocery store aisle. But the longer you sit with it, the more it feels like a story about time. About preservation. About what we did to survive the years that followed 2020, and what happens when we finally decide to bring something—or someone—back into the heat of the present.
This is not just a sentence about food.
It’s a sentence about us.
1. The Year Everything Went Into the Freezer
2020 was the year the world collectively reached for the freezer door.
Plans were suspended. Dreams were wrapped in plastic. Relationships were put on ice. Entire versions of ourselves were sealed away with the hope that someday—when it was safe, when it was normal, when it was over—we could take them back out again.
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Freezing is an act of care. It’s not destruction; it’s preservation. You freeze something because you don’t want it to spoil. You freeze it because you believe there will be a future where it is needed again.
In that sense, freezing was the most hopeful thing many of us did in 2020.
We froze routines: I’ll get back to the gym later.
We froze ambitions: I’ll apply when things calm down.
We froze identities: This isn’t who I really am; it’s just temporary.
“She” could be a loaf of bread, yes—but she could also be a version of yourself. The one who existed before everything stopped. The one who had momentum. The one who wore real clothes and made plans without contingency clauses.
We put her in the freezer and told ourselves it was for her own good.
2. What Freezing Really Does
Anyone who’s ever frozen food knows this: freezing doesn’t stop time completely. It slows it down, but it changes things in subtle ways.
Textures shift. Moisture redistributes. Ice crystals form.
When you freeze something long enough, it doesn’t come back exactly as it was. It can still be good—sometimes even great—but it will be different.
The same is true of people.
The years since 2020 didn’t just pause us; they altered us. We adapted to smaller lives. We learned new coping mechanisms. We grew used to isolation, to screens, to silence, to noise that never quite meant anything.
“She” sat there frozen, absorbing all of that indirectly. The freezer is not a vacuum; it’s an environment. And environments leave marks.
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By the time we were ready to open the door again, the question wasn’t Can she come back?
It was Who is she now?
3. The Decision to Thaw
Thawing is an act of intention.
You don’t thaw something by accident. You decide: Now.
You clear space. You take it out. You place it somewhere visible and wait.
“She was thawed for a week.”
A week is not nothing. A week is long enough for anticipation to build and anxiety to creep in. Long enough to check on it repeatedly. Long enough to wonder if this was a mistake.
Thawing is uncomfortable. It’s messy. It’s the stage where things look the worst—neither preserved nor complete, just… in between.
Emotionally, this is where many people found themselves when the world began reopening.
Going back out felt strange. Talking to people in person felt rehearsed. Old goals didn’t fit the same way they used to. The version of yourself you’d protected for so long didn’t slide neatly back into place.
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Thawing reveals damage—but it also reveals possibility.
4. The Week That Changes Everything
Why a week?
Because transformation doesn’t happen instantly.
Because readiness is not a switch—it’s a process.
During that week, moisture returns. Flexibility comes back. Things soften. What was rigid begins to move again.
This is the week where you remember how to want things.
The week where boredom turns into curiosity.
The week where fear and excitement coexist uncomfortably.
It’s also the week where doubt shows up loudest.
What if she’s ruined?
What if she’s not good anymore?
What if all this waiting was for nothing?
But thawing isn’t about perfection. It’s about preparation.
You don’t thaw something to leave it on the counter forever. You thaw it because something comes next.
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